confused

ever feel like you just don't know what just happened?
that's what is happening this morning. negativity in the house, when Mom says no - move on, don't whine about, or throw your ipod shuffle, or bang your head on the couch saying you wished it was the wall. that isn't a way to get what you want.
fess up to your mistakes - and the easiest way to get Mom or Dad off you back is to do what you are asked (without complaining or whining or attitude) - then contiune doing it in the future (i.e. turn off lights when you leave a room, flush the toilet after you use it, dishes into the dishwasher if it is dirty, put your things away right after you use them).
if something is bothering you - then please talk to your family members. don't just decide to go out, and you'll be back later. that hurts feelings.
several things need to do today (shop for shoes - running/walking, put laundry away, get ready for the school week, get roast into crockpot, play referee to the kids, want to get more things organized).
guess I should get off the computer and get going, but needed to do something instead of scream into pillow or beat the couch (especially since I ask the kids not to do that) or over react to something the kids have done.